- Time & Space
Both of you are feeling very confused and emotional right now. Give your wife and yourself a good break to calm down the emotions. Nothing is going to change if you try bugging her to come back. Rather than pestering her and make her more vexed, allow her to rest and cool down.
- Analyze the problems in the marriage
List down the possibilities that she wants to break off with you. Give a solution to every of the possibilities identified. Understanding the problems can also give you a clearer idea of what she wants from you.
- Be ready to change yourself
The reasons that your wife stopped loving you must be because of certain things that she does not likes about you. For example, she may not like you to smoke, gamble or your bad temper, etc.
- Control your emotions
Showing out your emotions will only make her thinks that you are needy. Instead of being depressed of what had happened to your marriage, you should get strong and learn to be positive. Being positive can help to bring back your confidence.
- Start your relationship with her all over again
If you think you understand her well enough, then you are wrong. You would have been able to keep your marriage if you really understand what she wants. Go back to those days that you start wooing her and start all over again.
There are many great ways to make your wife love you again and you have to make sure you understand the ways and follow it correctly.